Dear Jonathan and Laura
On Saturday evening, after an interesting discussion with Laura (my adult grand-daugter) in which she seemed to me to be scoffing religion, tho later she denied that; and also my finding that she seemed very moralistic, I had another interesting discussion with Jon (a lecturer in religion and philosphy) in which I said I had been getting pleasure from reading some philosophy even though it was so difficult to me that I could hardly understand it. Taking up the journal* again this evening I was surprised to find the next passage (which I do understand) seemed to be relevant to both discussions. I will quote it in full (despite it being tedious to do so. I have lost the software I had which could transcribe printed text into electronic form) The author is reviewing a book by Hugh Rock in which HR is commenting on a book by Macmurray.
“Having established the relational nature of religion with the help of Macmurray … Hugh Rock then argues that religion is alive in popular culture but not articulated in normal religious language, and not recognised by Christian churches. He calls this the “Super Ethic”, found especially amongst younger people, of ‘respect for the absolute autonomy and self-determined fulfilment of every person’. However, as Rock recognises, there is no religious articulation it, and this inevitably leads to problems in sustaining the ethic in the teeth of problems of … everyday life, and the distractions of our consumerist materialistic culture. This is perhaps seen in the existence of ‘serial monogamy’ – the ethic maintains the integrity of each relationship, but it is difficult to sustain any one relationship for an extended period. The purpose of religion, understood relationally**, is to provide the means to overcome conflict and hurt, and thereby sustain relationships.
“This ‘Super Ethic’ he goes on to call ‘The Religion of the Authority of No Authority’. He then defines God as
‘the ideal potential of the psychosymbiotic creative power of the self-fulfilment of persons in relationship to one another’.
“Hugh Rock recognises this as a form of anarchism, …
“Hugh Rock does find one place where such religion is practiced”:The bravest attempt to implement the authority of no authority in Christian practice has been that of the … Quakers.
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“ However it is my experience of being a Quaker that current Quaker practice has been taken over by Hugh Rock’s Platonic “Nature God’.*** Increasingly Quakers have affinity with Buddhism, and there is substantial division within [Quakers] between ‘theists’ and ‘non-theists’.
“Hugh Rock’s final argument is that religion understood as about personal relationships invalidates the distinction between sacred and secular…”
One reason I found this so fascinating and helpful to me, was that the description of the Super Ethic seemed to sum up nicely Laura’s ethics, which I had repeatedly called ‘moralistic’. I was surprised at her admirably high morality while condemning stridently the moral authoritarianism she seemed to me to regard as the main feature of the church. Later I tried to explain to her that I did not go to Quakers etc for moral instruction, but for religious/spiritual nurture – described above as the sacred as opposed to the secular.
My view on this is that we cannot know what God is or even if anything usually known as ‘God’ exists, but we can chose to name the source of good (of ethics), and day to day guidance ‘God’ even though maybe that source is none other than within us (or between us in our relationships?). Even if it is in fact only within us there is no harm in regarding it as external to us since whatever it is, it is beyond our conscious control, as is another person.
Another point I’d like to add is that I disagree with the above writers in their assumption that in the Quaker religion there is ‘no authority’. There is, or was until recently, a very strong authority, that of God, as exemplified by the life and teaching of Jesus and as conveyed by the Spirit.
Nuff said!
Best wishes to both of you,
Stephen